One of the easiest ways to up your game in the bedroom is by introducing a new toy or two. If things are feeling stale or routine, a new toy can push you out of your comfort zone and help you to find a new way to connect with your partner.
But how do you find the right toy for your needs? Mainstream media sex advice is skewed towards mixed sex couples, and a lot of sex toy advice focuses on women alone, since this is often the least taboo aspect of sex toy use. But this isn’t representative of the population as a whole, and it certainly isn’t representative of the wide range of sex toys available.
In this guide, we’re going to look at some of the best toys for same sex couples that are sure to spice things up in the bedroom and give you new avenues of pleasure to explore.
Remember that sex toys are often designed with any ‘body’ in mind. An anal plug is an anal plug, and it can be used by anyone who is curious about how it might feel to wear an anal plug. So don’t be too deterred by labels and categories when you’re shopping for sex toys. The end goal for sex toy manufacturers is always pleasure, so don’t be too stressed about who they might be marketing it to.
6 toys for female-female couples
- The Rocks Off Prism Rainbow Vibrator is a perfect choice when you’re looking for something slimline and discreet. It can be used for penetration, clitoral stimulation, or full body stimulation. Let your imagination run wild with this smooth and non-realistic looking vibe.
- The Revolver II Vibrating Strapless Strap On Dildo is a wearable strap-on that will allow you to explore penetration. The smooth jelly dildo is held in place with a wearable internal dildo that also features pleasure nubs and a vibrating bullet.
- This Double Header 18 Inch Smooth Dong is a versatile toy that is perfect for double penetration. It’s firm yet flexible, offering the chance to take both ends at once, or share the load between you.
- Did you know some women can climax from nipple stimulation alone? Explore this often neglected erogenous zone with these Rechargeable Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamps.
- Explore G spot stimulation with this Satisfyer Vibes Petting Hippo Rechargeable GSpot Vibrator. The rounded and angled head is perfectly positioned to hit the right spot with the 12 vibration speeds.
- Amp up the pleasure with this Pumped Pussy Pump Rose Gold. Pumps help to increase blood flow to the area which will help you to feel every sensation just a little bit stronger.
6 toys for male-male couples
- A cock ring will not only help you to last longer, it will also increase sensation and make everything feel just a little bit more special. Try this Admiral Triple Cock Cage to discover a world of pleasure.
- Used alone or with a partner, this Big Balls Stroker Sleeve Masturbator only needs a dab of lube to turn a simple hand job into something just a little more special and adventurous.
- If you want to explore anal play but aren’t sure where to start, you need the COLT Anal Trainer Kit Butt Plugs in your life. With three sizes to explore, you’re sure to find the one that is just right for you and your partner.
- Bondage and control play is a great way to explore new things together. This Sailor Bondage Kit includes everything you need to restrain your partner and then have your way with them. Remember to decide on a safe word and always proceed with caution.
- Everything feels better with the right lube. When it comes to anal play, you need something thick with staying power. This Anal Lube Natural In Pump Dispenser is the perfect addition to your bedside table so you’re always ready for action.
- Discover P spot stimulation with the Butts Up 3 Function P Spot Massager Blue. This body safe silicone vibe features a prostate stimulator with pleasure nubs for added testicle stimulation. It also has a removable vibrating bullet.