Surprising your partner with a striptease is a great way to ramp things up in your relationship. Whether you’re still in the honeymoon period and want to find new ways to impress your partner, or you’ve been together for a while and want to reignite the spark, a sexy dance while you undress is a great place to start.
A striptease is an excellent form of foreplay. They’ll be able to look, but not touch, leading to incredible tension as the anticipation rises. And then once you’re done, they can chase you into the bedroom where the real action begins.
You don’t have to be a confident dancer to plan a sexy striptease. It’s often more about knowing your body and what are your strongest assets so you can draw all attention to these areas. Add in a saucy soundtrack and a few extra props, and you’ll be all ready to seduce your partner with your moves. So, how exactly do you do a striptease without feeling cringy?
A striptease has to be done from a place of confidence. If you’re feeling cringy and awkward, it will show, and it could make your partner feel uncomfortable. Shake off any inhibitions you might have and dig down deep to find your inner sex kitten.
Working on your body confidence can be achieved through things like pole fitness classes. These will encourage you to be active while also engaging in a pretty sensual activity. You’ll learn some incredible moves that you can bring home to your partner. And pole fitness is not exclusively for women, men are often welcome in classes.
There are some classic striptease songs to consider, but make sure you choose something that matches your personality. And be prepared for this song to raise eyebrows and a giggle between you two in the future.
Some classic striptease songs include:
Once you know the song you’ll be performing to, you’ll get a better idea of the pace and movement of the song.
Maybe we’re wrong, but we don’t think there’s a single sexy way to slide out of skinny jeans. So your outfit clearly matters. You want items that can be pulled away slowly. Women should consider a wrap dress over lingerie while men can take inspiration from Magic Mike.
Watch some YouTube videos about striptease routines to learn the basics, and then start to put your routine together. Think about how you can incorporate props such as feather boas, chairs or even a dance pole. You don’t have to have a whole routine planned out, but try to make sure you have a few go-to moves you can try.
You need to go into a striptease with the right mindset. If you drink, try having a little glass of wine before you get started. You don’t want to be drunk, but a little bit of a buzz could take the edge off. If you don’t drink, you need to find a way to tap into your most seductive self. This could mean listening to a sexy soundtrack or even watching some sexy striptease videos or films to get you in the mood.
Then, lead your partner into the room. Ask them to take their seat and let them know the rules. Dim the lights and then start the music. Now it’s time to channel your confidence into giving a sexy performance for your partner. Remember that it’s supposed to be fun. There might be some giggles, but don’t take these personally. Try to enjoy yourself and don’t take it too seriously.