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How to turn yourself on – without using porn

September 14, 2022
By, laura

Try these the next time you need to get turned on without the porn.

There’s a time and place for porn, and sometimes it just doesn’t tick all of the boxes. Knowing how to turn yourself on without resorting to porn is a really useful skill to have.

Not only is it perfect for when you simply don’t have access to porn, but it also stops you from becoming dependent on porn to get you in the mood. This would be a form of addiction, and it can be incredibly damaging to your relationships.

Porn is readily available, and there’s something for every kink, but you might find that you’re becoming too dependent on visual cues to get yourself in the mood. While it might be great for solo play, you need to consider how your partner would feel about your reliance on porn.

Luckily, the human brain is a wonderful thing and should have no problems getting turned on by alternative sources of stimulation. Try these the next time you need to get turned on without the porn.

Have a photoshoot

Your own body can be a huge turn-on, and making yourself feel incredibly sexy is a great place to start. Having a photoshoot with yourself is a great way to amp up the sexy feelings.

You’re essentially turning the lens on yourself and making your own body the visual stimulation you need to get yourself going. If you’re getting yourself in the mood to be with your partner, sharing a few saucy snaps will help to amp up the tension. You can also keep the photos for yourself. Or you can delete them as soon as you’re done.

Browse sex toy websites

If you want to feed your imagination, you could try browsing sex toy websites to get your heart racing. Load up your basket with things you’re curious about trying and just imagine what it would feel like to use them.

You could also try shopping for lingerie or something a little outside your usual comfort zone. You don’t have to go on a shopping spree, but you might find that just the thought of using a particular toy becomes too much and you just have to buy it.

Read a book

While still technically porn, this isn’t the same as watching it. If you enjoy a smutty novel, then reading something suggestive could be just the thing you need to get in the mood. You’ll be relying on your imagination far more, and this can spark some pretty wild fantasies that you didn’t know you had locked up inside you.

There’s no shortage of erotic fiction available out there, from modern to the classics. While there is some bad erotic fiction out there, there’s also some really good stuff to be found. Head to this list to discover some non-cringe erotic fiction that goes beyond 50 Shades of Grey.

Get to know your body

So often we jump into the act without really stopping to get to know what works for us. If you don’t know what to request from your partner in bed, there’s a good chance you don’t know your body as well as you think you do. To remedy this, use the power of touch to turn yourself on. Explore your body and discover what feels good.

Try sexting

If you want to get your partner in on the action, firing off a few cheeky texts could be just the thing you need to get in the mood. Sexting is probably one of the easiest ways to get turned on without porn; all you need is a willing partner.

Try sending the following texts to see what kind of a response you can get:

  • “Tell me a story… one that I can touch myself to.”
  • “What are you going to do to me next time we’re together?”
  • “If you could do anything to me, where would you start?”

These might turn up some interesting and insightful things about your partner that you weren’t aware of before. It can also be an excellent source of passion and heat to help get you in the mood. If your partner isn’t a fan of porn, they will be more than willing to help you get turned on without the use of video.

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