Looking for a new position to spice things up? You’ve heard of cowgirl, so now it’s time to shake things up with reverse cowgirl. Unleash your wild side and feel empowered and in control with this athletic position that will hit the right spot every time.
With reverse cowgirl, you’re in control of speed, depth and intensity of penetration. This means you can make sure you’re hitting the right spot for intense G-spot stimulation. Many women find that G-spot stimulation happens accidentally, but with this position, you can make it targeted and deliberate.
The G-spot is a spongy region found inside the vagina along the front wall. Stimulating this area is popular as it forms the apex of where the internal part of the clitoris meets and wraps around the vagina.
G-spot stimulation is enough to trigger an orgasm in some women, and others can even achieve a squirting orgasm from this region. For others, stimulating this area triggers intense blended orgasms when combined with clitoral stimulation.
Hitting the G-spot doesn’t do it for every woman, and some women just find it a little bit annoying. But if you’re one of the many women who find it intensely pleasurable, you’re going to be on the lookout for positions that hit the right spot.
Missionary isn’t going to work for you in this instance as this position goes deep but aims for the back wall of the vagina. To hit the G-spot, you need penetration from behind. Doggy style is a great place to start, but if you want to be in control of the movement, then reverse cowgirl is the one for you.
G-spot stimulation feels incredible for some women because of the internal structure of the clitoris. We only think of the clitoris as being a tiny little nub of flesh, but the whole structure actually extends well inside the vagina and wraps around. This means that internal stimulation is also important for climax.
Targeting the G-spot with a toy or even a finger can produce intense sensations and can even lead some women to “squirt”. It can also produce a “blended” orgasm, which occurs when stimulating both internal and external portions of the clitoris.
To try reverse cowgirl, you’re going to get your partner to lay on his back. You climb on top, facing the opposite way you would when you’re normally on top. So, you should be facing towards his feet. Your partner should hold you around the waist for support and you can put your hands behind you on his chest to steady yourself.
Keeping your feet flat on the bed will enable you to get more leverage when moving yourself into position than if you were to put your knees down. Make sure you’re the one in control of the movement, as this will allow you to target the penetration to the exact right spot.
Want to upgrade this position? You could start by adding a vibe into the mix and controlling this with a spare hand. You’ll need to be extra steady to be able to support your weight and use your favourite vibe, but your partner can help with this.
For two women trying this position, you’ll need a strap on for penetration. And a strap on can also be used by a woman who wants to penetrate her man in this position. And finally, two men can use this position for penetrative sex, and the one on top will also have the option to masturbate while being penetrated.