Sex life getting a little stale? You don’t have to settle for the same old. When you’re getting bored in the bedroom, it’s time to spice things up with one of three things. Either introduce a new toy, a new fantasy, or a new position.
And if you’re feeling particularly ambitious, you might try to combine all three. If you’re looking for a challenging new position to try with your other half, downward doggy style could be just the thing you need. It might take a bit of trial and error to get the right angle for penetration, but the rewards are worth it.
It’s a fun take on doggy style that also sort of looks like a wheelbarrow race. This can be achieved my heterosexual couples and same-sex couples alike. To do this move, the penetrating partner sits on a chair, the edge of the bed, or any other piece of furniture at the right height.
Their partner then lies in front of them, wraps their legs around their waist, and manoeuvres into position. The penetrating partner will keep their hands or forearms on the ground while their partner holds on to their hips for support.
This is a challenging position to get into, so there’s already an element of skill involved, which can make you both feel more adventurous. It’s also an unusual angle for penetration, which will change the sensations for both of you. You’re trying to replicate doggy style where one of you is in a seated position and the other is lying in front of them.
The angle isn’t great for deep penetration, but it is great for stimulating the opening of the vulva, which is dense with nerve endings. And finally, keeping your head down while you climax will produce some intense sensations thanks to the increased pressure. It’s a unique sensation.
If you’re looking for a way to improve on this, you could try wearing an anal plug to make things feel even tighter. Your partner could also wear a vibrating cock ring to help him stay harder for longer while also delivering waves of vibrating pleasure.
If you want to introduce more toys into the mix, you could try a clitoral vibe that is held in place with straps. You could also hand over the controls to your partner and let them use their free hands for stimulation. You can also try using a warming lube to amp up every sensation while also making penetration easier at the unusual angle.
As mentioned above, you don’t have to be a mixed sex couple to make this move work. For female-female pairings, you simply need to introduce a strap-on into the situation to allow for penetration. And male-male couples can use this unique angle for anal penetration. Remember to go slow and use plenty of lube with any anal play.